So, a friend of mine (and I'm using the term friend very loosely here) is getting depressed and threatening to leave the Internet just because other people aren't acknowledging his particular way of ... expanding on another artist's work. Specifically, he took a species created by someone else, made them into a gooey, vore-obsessed versiont hat never reaches a mental maturity above the age of 13, but now he's upset because he's not well-known for that (despite it being a completely unoriginal concept) and that other people have done far better artwork of the same species inspired by the original artist's work.
As a result of this, he's both threatening to leave the Internet and wished he had a gun for, well, rather obvious reasons. Given that he's been talking about both of these things for over a year, though, I've told him to go see a psychologist and print out this chat log. He refuses to do so. I translated that as "I refuse to do anything that would allow someone to help me" and he went off on a rant about how he thinks he's right, how he doesn't want to disclose anything he deos online, and how he doesn't feel like he belongs in reality. I've ended the conversation by telling him that, if he truly feels that way, then he should just go kill himself right now. And that I'd see him tomorrow because we both know damn well that he's not going to follow through with any of these threats.
Any suggestions on dealing with this in a constructive way, or should I just tell him to fuck off and block him? If not for the fact he's kinda cute, I'd probably have given up a long time ago. Jsut for the record, no, this isn't someone I'm interested in as more than a friend.
Was ist a Sergal?
ReplyDeleteI BET it was a Sergal.
Otherwise, no: There is no way to help energy vampires because they are not interested in help, they are interested in your attention. And the solution of their problem would eliminate the source to garner that.
@Ahastar Actually... yes, it was a Sergal. How the heck did you deduce that? o_O
ReplyDeleteBecause they are the current Kool-Aid fad of the furry fandom and, given that 95% of the members of said fandom wouldn't recognize creativity if it'd anally fuck them with a razor blade strap on, it was easy to fire off that guess.
ReplyDeleteNo matter what though, if you want to keep your sanity, you will probably have to be rude. Gentleness doesn't work with that irk of folks.